Monday, May 18, 2009

Educational TV = Good!

I read that TV is bad for the baby because they need the human interactions. Well, I've been with my child 24/7 for almost two years now and I found that educational TV is actually very good for my kid and for my sanity. We do book reading throughout the day and my child receives lots of human interactions. When we do watch TV, we have an overhead projector so it's better for her eyes, or we use flatscreen or a dvd player. She is learning her alphabets from watching The Letter Factory by the Leap Frogs and she learned how to sign what she needs by watching the Baby Signing Time borrowed from the library.
Before, my child did not like to sit in the car seat and it was a torture to get her buckled into the seat. Now she loves to sit there. Without her shows by her high chair, my child played with food, made a mess and did not eat much, but now her mess is not as bad and she eats lots of food that her poop is gigantic. She's learning words and songs. Sometimes if I need to cook dinner, the show may keep her entertained for a little bit, then she wants to come play with me which is dangerous by the stove. Overall, I think educational TV (sensor the messages on the shows) has lots of benefits if the TV screen is not damaging to their eyes.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy 1st Mother's Day!

Happy first Mother's Day!
I tried to give Jasmine a hug and she tried to suck on me instead. LOL

Singing & Dancing

We picked up a lot of skills since then. Singing, dancing. we learned through trials and errors what works for us and what works for her. different tricks we learned from other parents, from reading and from our instincts.

Even though we can't sing a tune (Simon from American Idol will probably say so), we had to learn to sing nursery songs for Jasmine. She seems to calm down better when there are songs. We didn't know that many songs, so we kept singing ABC song. So we borrowed nursery songs CD from the public library. We played for her in the car and it seemed to work. We also placed a smiley face toy with lights that she loves. Between the nursery songs, smiley toy, and toy bar, she's not as fussy in the car, but she still doesn't like the car seat.

We also had to dance for her when she's on the swing to entertain her when she's fussy.

Baby Spa Treatments

We gave her spa treatments. She got manicure and pedicure. we got the baby nail clipper and had to cut her nails carefully so not to cut her little fingers. She sure is pampered :)

Still looking good?

I noticed I'm starting to look like one of the mom with messy hair and bag under eyes. I used to look at least decent when I go out. boohoohoo :( Now I get zits all over my face and no time to put on facial creams and SPF lotions. I'll be lucky if I have time to take a shower, brush my teeth, brush my hair, slap some facial cream on. Quick shower IS good during water shortage. I didn't understand how it can be until now I'm it. I'm taking care of Jasmine from morning to night, breastfeeding her non stop, I can't be out of her sight. I guess I'll be so lucky to walk around and have my nipple tuck in :)

One has to be mentally and physically ready to have a baby. Someone told us we picked a good time. we had traveled, had some fun. we're okay financially. we're more mature. our marriage has been through rough times. (having a baby is stressful to a marriage. humor really helped. like any marriage, communicate the expectations. know our priorities. stay focus). Physically, it's exhausting to take care of this little person. feeding, soothing the cries, at the end of the day, I just pass out on the sofa. How life have changed after the baby, but I would do it again to have Jasmine...